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Monday, April 28, 2008

The Dime

My mother passed away on Monday April 5th 1999 and I thought my world had ended. I was convinced that somehow momma was with me and even though I couldn't see her, I could feel her presence. I was reading an article in a magazine about this lady who's husband had died. He loved to make rubber band balls and one day while out walking she found a rubber band. Convinced her husband was watching over her, she told these thoughts to her friend. Her friend told her that she had always heard that if someone you loved had died and you found a dime that they were with you. A few days later while out walking with her grand-daughter she found another rubber band and right beside it was a dime. She knew he was watching over her. I found this very intriguing and wondered if by chance this could be true. One day I was missing momma and couldn't quit crying. Sobbing I said "momma if your watching over us, let me find a dime." The very next day when I went to get in my truck, right beside my foot was the shininest dime I ever saw. I simply smiled and felt a warmth come over me. I was telling my sister, Brenda about the story of the dime. A day or two went by and she called me so excited that she to had found a dime. Thinking this was so neat I called my sister Sharon and my brother Mike, I didn't tell them the story I just ask them if they had found any money lately. They both thought for a minute and both of them said they had found a dime. Sharon finding her's in the hallway and Mike found his walking into a store. I then told them the story behind the dime, now all four of us kids know that momma is watching over us.Even her grand-children find dimes when they are needed for comfort. I may go for weeks and not find any but when I'm really down missing mom or I just need to know she's with me, I stumble over a dime. Like this incident that happened July 31st 2007. (this was the only week we could go) Wayne and I were on vacation, far away from home and it was our son's 30th birthday. I was really feeling down and I wanted to be at home to celebrate this milstone with him and our daughter was expecting her first baby. We were walking out of the motel and I was choking back tears and not wanting Wayne to see me crying, I looked down and over toward the bushes. There in the rocks was the brightest shiniest dime. I really starting sobbing and I knew that even though I was miles away from home, momma was with me and she was with our kids. When we got into the truck, I ask Wayne if I had ever shared the story about the dimes, with tears in my eyes I started explaining the story and when I finished I looked over at my husband and his eyes were misty. I don't find them all the time, but I do find them when I need them. Momma makes sure that on special days, somehow a dime falls in my path. When Lindsey's baby was born, walking out of the hospital, there layed a dime. The day Lindsey moved out with her daughter to start their own lives, I was sitting in Taegan's empty room crying and what did I find? THREE dimes. I smiled because I know mom is with her daughter, grand-daughter and great-grand-daughter. Whether it's true or not it does bring me comfort when I look down and see that a dime has dropped from Heaven at my feet.

6 comments:

Plant Lady said...

Tommie,
What a wonderful blog! I enjoyed the story of the dimes. What a beautiful grandaughter! She is precious! I'll be back to visit again soon.

God Bless You!
Plant Lady

Paula V said...

Welcome to blogging. Your granddaughter is gorgeous...big eyes and beautiful face.

I see you are only about two hours from me. I live in historic town of Madison, Indiana.

Stop by my blog sometime and read as many posts and comments as you have time. It's sure been a blessing to me to serve the Lord in such a capacity.

Lynn - JnL4God said...

Tommie,
You did a great job on your blog and what a beautiful picture of your Grandaughter.

Be Blessed,
Lynn

Dana said...

Tommie,

Wow! Your blog is great!! Wonderful story about the dimes. God is sooo good to comfort you in the painful times of missing loved ones. Your grandaughter is adorable!! I read your other post on Katherine. I can somewhat relate. My 1st grandson's Mom is not stable.(that is being extremely nice) she never took care of him when she was living around our area. We always had him. When she and my son decided to get a divorce she threatened several times to take the baby and leave and we would never see him again. She was an habitual liar and we knew nothing about her. We did not know where she came from, who her parents were or anything. She had 2 other small children by a previous marriage and they lived with their Dad and his parents in Indiana. They came to visit a few times and once for 2 weeks and we had them all but 1 day of that 2 weeks. So I knew she was not capable of being a mother to any child. I was paralzed with fear when she was threatening to take the baby. My son got custody of him finally and she has not seen him in 3 years (he is 4). She has visitation rights but we have not heard from her. Our Grandson now lives with us and he does not know that he has a Mom. Your blog said that your Grandaughter goes to church. Be very thankful for that. At least you know someone cares for her enough to see that she gets to church. I'm sorry that I have rambled on so, but your post really struck a cord with me. You are living what I have feared for several years and my heart aches for you. Tommie, I will be lifting your family up to God in much prayer for healing relationships. He can change your situation. He can change the heart of Katherine's mother. He wants to give you a miracle. Believe it and receive it.

Love in Christ,
Dana

riverview said...
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riverview said...

Tommie,

God has given you such a precious and perfect gift in your granddaughter! She is so lovely, and I know that she brings a very special joy to your heart.

I found your "dime" story so heartwarming and delightful. What a wonderful way to feel the presence of loved ones and the consolation that it brings, especially in troubled times.

Tommie & Dana, being a grandmother is sometimes one of the hardest tasks there is. In most cases, when our children are small we have total control over where they are, what they do, who they are with, etc. However, with grandchildren,it is quite another story.

We often feel so completely helpless as we know that we have to take a back seat in their upbringing. I have 13 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. With some of them, I have experienced the same situation in which you are presently in. I know that whirlwind of terror that mounts inside of you, viciously swirling in your gut until you feel like you are going to double over with pain at the thought that something or someone will hurt your grandchild. We are ready to attack anyone or anything that attempts to harm them, even in some cases, their parents.

There seems to be a different level of protection that we feel we must provide to our grandchildren, as opposed to that which we gave to our own children. I think that it is something only grandparents can truly understand, and I believe it is because we don't really have that much of a say when it comes to their child-rearing or the matter of safety precautions being practiced where they are concerned. We don't know if their seatbelts are always secured, if responsible and sober drivers are transporting them, who and what they are being exposed to, if they are always being properly fed and clothed, if they are being abused, if they are always properly supervised, if they are going to church, if they know Jesus? So very many concerns, how wonderful that we have the Lord to turn to, and that we are able to hand over all of our worries to Him. It doesn't necessarily stop that gut-wrenching feeling, however when we do surrender all of our doubts and fears to Him, He does handle them.

I will keep both of you and your grandchildren close to my heart and in my daily prayers.

God's peace be with you.
Karyl ~ Bonners Ferry, ID

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